I was frustrated and we had a bit of a rough exchange. Always remember that. Her relatives look at me funny. After all, what does he know of me other than what I look like? I appreciate you being bold enough to say it. You, my sister, seem to be over-spiritualizing life in the 21st century.
Never worked, so I stopped expressing any interest in women around my age.
What was I to do? What if we kiss and then break up? If a guy did, that gal should get red flags and run far far away! Welcome to dating in the church as a guy. We both came through a very dark, and sad period in our lives ….
He was also dancing but way different than his usual dance. Most woman are truly crazy. Marriage is great, but way too many women idolize it as the epitome of their existence.
First off we need to get in our heads that both men and women are good and bad. Perhaps you are the type of woman who wants some dialog with a man before he asks you out. Introduce her to people, maybe help her find a small group and feel welcome. The problem is, when men leave for the reasons I stated, the church will simply blame the men who left rather than fix the repeated problems that made them leave in the first place.